Real or Nice?

Today’s bit is not new to me but I recently heard it again and if feels good to share. Do you find yourself “being nice” at times, rather than “being real”?

What causes you to choose “nice”?
When does the choice serve you?
When doesn’t it?

The sub-statement in what I read this week hit me and went like this:

My biggest fear is that everyone I know will be in the same room at the same time and I won’t know who to be.

What part of that statement is true for you? Which situations or relationships cause you to distort or silence yourself? Which situations or relationships cause you to say YES when you mean NO or vice versa?

Now what will you do with what you know?

What is YOUR wisdom?